So at the moment I'm feeling kinda sad. I broke up with my girlfriend recently, which I don't care about and is not why I'm feeling down.

I'm feeling down because it seems like people deny that I exist at all. At school, a lot of people hated me because I made a public blog post about someone who I hate with a passion and this person happened to be a dumb popular preppy jerk. He was friends with most of the girls at my school, which pretty much destroyed any of my chances of talking to a lot of the girls at my school. People don't want to let it go, and if I tried to add someone as a friend on MySpace they do any or all of the following:

a. Completely ignore my friend request

b. Send me hateful messages

c. Just be a d-bag in general.

Thanks to this d-bag, I have little to no chances of getting a girlfriend until people lighten up and just let it go. And even if they aren't friends with this kid they still seem to completely ignore me. Is there something about me that just utterly offends & disgusts you? Do I point fingers at you and laugh at how much of an idiot you can be? Maybe I should just deal with the fact that I'm worthless.

Hey :)

*hug*

You are not worthless okay?

Elementary School, Middle School, High School.. it's all stupid. Once you get out, that's the real life. I'm currently in college and it's great. No one insults me here. All of the other students support me.

As for a girlfriend, I'm 20 years old and I have never had one (because of my religious background.. can't have one till I'm ready for marriage)

People who are popular now probably won't be popular later. And besides, life is not a popularity contest after high school is over. It's completely different. People grow up.. they change for better or worse.

I was not popular at all in high school - no one picked on me very much, I had 2 friends. None of my classmates played video games.. so that really sucked.

You are going to meet better people who are actually worth spending time with and caring for. I don't recommend publicly writing blogs about people you hate - but what you can do is write a private entry for only you too see - to let out emotion - also as a way to look back on things.

I don't really go on myspace very much (or any profile site besides YouTube) - don't let these profile sites bring you down either. There is so much more to life than that.

All you need is one awesome friend. Try and find one. I only have about 3 very close friends, and I'm 20. You are going to meet so many people in your life..

And remember, it's cool to just be yourself. Being nice helps too. :)

Care Bears?

Take it from me, High School Dating just doesn't work.

Almost everyone that I know who done dating in High School have problems with them.

You may feel sad that you are missing out on the High School Dating scene and it seems like most of the girls are going for the jocks, the gangsters and the rich but think of this.

Most of those relationships don't last long and the ones that do, if they are lucky enough, very few might last beyond high school.

Then  of course is the horror of being cheated on once you have a relationship in HS.

Cheating sadly is a common problem in High School and believe me, getting cheated on is a feeling far worse than the one you are feeling now..

So in short, you are better off waiting until you are older when more people have grow out of the "partying/cheating" age

I'm sorry about your loss...

...hmmm only three days going into my senior year, and already some of my friends have problems...

dude, i have somewhat been in your shoe before, at one point in time, i wanted to leave my high school because i thought no one wanted me there or i couldn't get along with anyone over there...then i joined the ROTC program and found a lot of friends, and slowly people started to appreciate me and that's how it has been since my freshmen year...

But don't think about high school as a "popularity" spot, trust me, it is not, i for one have pity for the popular and rich kids, because some of them may be popular and have friends ALL over the school, but what about their academics? what about their education? what happens if they get out into the REAL WORLD? would they survive? probably if they are rich, but that is just "being lazy".

I have worked for the position that i am right now, i am not quite popular around the school, but i know a couple of people around my school, and we greet each other and stuff. Most likely the reason why i somehow "attract" people to me is because of my kindness...i am so FREAKIN kind, even when people were bothering me when i was playing DDR in the school's cafeteria while hundreds of people were watching, i still kept a chilled head. That is my thing, i don't try to be someone else and act a different way, i just love being nice, because if you show someone you listen and you care for them, they may think the same about you, and sooner or later, you got a friend. It can my strong point, but it can also be my weak point -_-.

i have yet to enter the "college" era, but i have college experience before, and the students (and adults...somehow) i was amazed that everything went by smoothly, we helped each other out, we had conversations, and i really felt welcome there =)

Just don't really pay much attention about the people in high school, it's basically a really good excuse for teenagers to come together and show everyone "who they are", but it's not really going to matter about what kind of car/purse/clothes/money/how many times you had sex/drugs you have or have done, it all depends on the type of person you are and what you want to accomplish from high school.

I always think that high school is set for teenagers as an elimination, they elminiate the people that will fly by school, cheat, don't do anything, while they push forward the people who are "less" known, have good grades, follow directions, and the such.

about the girlfriend thing, i don't know about that, i haven't gotten a "high school" relationship, but i actually plan on not having one, i plan on excelling in my studies and graduate in white...

hope you feel better and take care =)

I just want to say bravo to those of you that posted. It's great to see people being nice here for a change. I mean, we are a community right? =]

And PureBlue, you know you can talk to me on AIM any time you want. If I'm too busy to really listen I'll let you know, but other than that go for it. 

I want to second tofu's sentiment, it is absolutley awesome to see so many people post with strong and positive responses.  We need to do our best to stick together as a community and help each other out, and thats exactly what I see here.

PureBlue, you are an extremely valauable community member, and you can contact me at anytime you want.  We can talk DDR, life, high school, whatever you want.  The door is always open.  

lol tofu :)

I'm generally nice and perky. I do have a Care Bear as my avatar.

If I hurted anyones feelings here, cookies on me ^_^

Most of my friends commend me on how nice of a person I am. But all the dumb sports players and preppy kids tend to not acknowledge that I exist.

All those dumb sports players and preppy kids won't matter in a few years : )

I never really cared if people thought I existed.

As long as one person cared for me, that was enough to live every day : )